I think I'm starting to "see things".
What did I do?
Go to the Default Web Site, IIS Manager Permissions. Added the Windows user account Administrator. Went to the remote console, keyed in the management service url and Web site name, and then tried to connect. It gives me a 401 when I DO NOT place a checkmark into the IIS Manager credentials checkbox, however, when I do it lets me in.
I thought this is only for non-Windows IIS Mgr credentials? I am definitely starting to go entirely cross eyed.
Chris